I’ve been thinking a lot lately about a simple Venn diagram. You know the one—two circles representing two people, with the overlap symbolizing their shared life, shared values, shared experiences, and connection. Years ago, I looked at that diagram and thought the goal of love was to make the overlap as large as possible. I wanted the circles to almost disappear into one another. I believed that if two people loved each other enough, there would be very little separation lef